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Many women make the mistake of thinking that if a guy finds them attractive, they are on the path to a relationship. Even though they understand that the path may be full of twists and turns, still they believe that attracting the male is the first step. It is not the first step.

Attracting the male is the first step to hooking up. When a man finds you attractive, he wants to touch what he sees. If the attraction is mutual, you may go for the hookup.

You do not have the beginnings of a relationship. So what is the first step to a relationship?

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The first step is getting inside his head. He needs to think about you.

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He needs to wonder about you. He needs to be intrigued, and he needs to feel an impulse or urge to connect with you.

That can happen with or without a hookup, before or after. An interesting thing I have found in my research is that while most girls experience difficulty in getting guys to commit, there are some young women who complain that every guy they hook up with wants more from them.

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Naturally, that makes them irresistible bait. If not wanting a relationship is the best way of being offered one, then what should you do if you want one? What can you do to be successful? I remember cringing at that. You do not need a guy to be complete. In fact, a guy cannot complete you.

You must live your life right now, today, without a relationship.

Live it the best you can. Be thankful for what you have. No one can think you are fabulous unless you do. It always starts with you.

When you know your own worth, it shows. You know that you would be an awesome girlfriend. You know that you could make a guy really happy. You are not right for every guy. Your job is to be your best, most confident self to attract the guy who might be.

Just getting moving will make you feel stronger and better. Understand that you are beautiful in your natural state.

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Stop trying so hard to get the guys all hot and bothered. If you are lucky enough to have a great body, resist the temptation to display all of it at the same time. Focus on one asset at a time.

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Use makeup to enhance your looks, not give you the appearance of a heroin addict. Expecting a guy to become your boyfriend is not strategic.


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